TURN ON'S
intelligence, genuine quirkiness, nice smiles, retro fashion, an enthusiasm and optimism for life and humanity, beer, whisky, Fred Perry, fitted suits, nice skin, cute girls with bad posture, vintage things, style, Socialized Health Care, non-violence and non-violent action.
TURN OFF'S
loneliness, pessimism, cynicism, Ayn Rand, most metal (the music genre), outspoken religious fundamentalists, sadism.
ABOUT ME
Learning from the past and moving on to better places.

I've never been professionally diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder or anything like that, but I know its there because of how I feel when I am around people. The best way I can describe it is a feeling of terror and panic when confronted with new social situations. Unfortunately, I've learned to hide it well so not many people know that I have SA (most just assume I'm being snobby or I'm shy).

So here I am, I'm coming out to the internet world as a person with Social Phobia. I'm not expecting this community to give me support or try to cure my SA, but hopefully it will be a nice way to share experiences with others.

I also show up to my local meetup.com's Shyness and Social Anxiety group every so often, maybe I'll see you there one day!
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nope, i haven't. Whats the character's name?
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Now that's a good idea. Thanks for the compliment!
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sonya99 wrote at April 7, 2010
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thanks. nice sweater!
sonya99
ransfordrowe wrote at April 6, 2010
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Hi.There are lots of beautiful places in England.I suppose most people start taking them for granted and dont always appriciate them.What are some of your favourite places in your city. Im a big fan of parks,libraries,the cinema and the local nature.
ransfordrowe
ThisCharmingMan wrote at April 7, 2010
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oh we have a lot of really nice parks and libraries in San Francisco, and the surrounding cities have a lot of untouched natural settings. I think you'd really like it here.
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chrisco wrote at April 5, 2010
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Ehh sucky, taking just 1 class this semester. I want to sue SFSU, know a good lawyer? :0
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ThisCharmingMan wrote at April 7, 2010
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yeah SF State is a load of bollocks. I'm sure we can all work out a class action lawsuit.
ThisCharmingMan
spwill wrote at April 3, 2010
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"that was a really good episode of Dr. Who"

I love Doctor Who especially the ones written by Steven Moffat. They're showing the new one tomorrow at the wondercon on the same day it premieres in England.
spwill
ransfordrowe wrote at April 1, 2010
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Hi.Just thought I would stop by and say hi.Im looking for more people to speak to on the site.

You seem to be a big music fan going by your music list.I listen to music most days and its a great way to relax.
ransfordrowe
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